Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.
Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking.
Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice.
And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become
Everything else is secondary.
Steve Jobs

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Staying on Task

NaNoWriMo
I made it over the hump of week 1 of NaNoWriMo and surprisingly to me, I still have ideas to work with! Leading up to the start of the event on November 1st, I followed the advice of my friend Amy Strickland and wrote an outline and got my typing fingers in gear to plot out settings, characters, and what I actually wanted to do with my story. It's been going well, and for the most part I'm staying on topic, but more importantly, I'm meeting my word goals each day. There have even been days where I've given myself a cushion and have been able to get out of the house. And, thank goodness for small favors, because I needed a cushion for this past weekend.

Small Wonders
I got a dreaded phone call on Friday morning; my mom was in the hospital and the doctors thought she'd had a heart attack. The 170 miles from home that I was might have been 170,000. Luckily, I work for an amazing family and was on the road within the hour, headed home to my mommy. I was able to get to the hospital before they took her for a cardiac catherization (where they would have done an angioplasty) and I was able to be with my dad and brother through the procedure. After a very long hour, the cardiologist told us that her arteries were clear, her heart was beautiful and it wasn't a heart attack. Thank you God. So, what was wrong?
When you have pneumonia, an infection settles in your lungs and fluid builds up, making it difficult to breathe. What happened to my mom was similar to that, only the infection settled in her chest and the fluid built up between her heart and lungs, causing her to feel pain in her chest and back. She presented with all the symptoms of a silent heart attack. Her doctors were wonderful and through and thankfully it wasn't anything life-threatening. She's going to feel horrid for the next three weeks, but she's going to get better.
I spent the rest of the weekend and Monday helping my brother and dad get the house cleaned, get the laundry done, do some cooking and basically doing everything that my mom shouldn't be doing. While she was still very tired and had no energy when I left, I knew she was in good hands with my brother and dad, and would be much better when I get back at Thanksgiving.

Speaking Of...
Thanksgiving. Why is everyone making such a big deal about Christmas stuff being everywhere? When was the last time you decorated for Thanksgiving? Thanksgiving is about spending time with the people you care about, about being grateful for what you have, and what you can give to others. It's not a commercial holiday. OK, granted, I do get my turkey free from Giant every year, but still... do you sing Turkey carols? Here's the thing.
My feeling on this is that I can be thankful for what I have and what I can give to others while I enjoy Christmas music. I love spending two months walking around department stores and soaking up the holiday spirit. The music, the smells, the colors, everything! Basically, I think people are making way to big a deal out of a couple extra weeks of holiday hoopla, when they could be out spreading the cheer and the joy. Because, let's face it... we should be doing that year round anyway... only right now, we can be singing fun, cheerful carols while we do it!

Saturday, October 22, 2011

Everyone has those days...

Why did I get out of bed?
You know those mornings when you wake up and wonder "Why did I even bother getting out of bed?" I haven't had one of those days in awhile, but today was quite the day. Now, it's going to seem childish and lame to write "I can't elaborate until this is finished" but that's the case. I'm hoping to have more news by the middle of the week, but basically I feel like I've fallen on my face and I'm waiting for the coast to clear so I can get back up and keep going.

Nanny Diaries
For those of you don't know, I left home over the summer and moved to Virginia to be a nanny to a family of twin girls and a preschooler. I left a lot behind, including friends and my family so that I could live 10 miles from Washington DC and to work for an incredible and fun family. I love what I do and I've been caring for children for most of my life, but this new adventure has taught me so much about children in such a short time. This will likely be the focus of my blog, talking about how I'm doing and what I'm learning from the girls that I take care of. Of course, me falling on my face (figuratively and sometimes literally) will likely be a source of amusement. Links to resources that I reply on will also be a big part of what I blog about. I love doing research and I love getting feedback and finding new resources from other teachers!

NaNoWriMo
It's that time of year again; time for me to write down a few dozen ideas and try to narrow them down to a handful of ideas that flow and write a novel. November and National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo) and the goal of every writer who participates is to write a 50,000 word novel in 30 days. That basically translates to writing a 1,000+ page high school research paper every day (1,667 words to be exact). For the past two years running, I have attempted NaNoWriMo and given up after about five days. It's not for lack of time and it's not for lack of ideas... it's just pure laziness. This year, however, I have no excuses. I have a job that allows me time during the day and the evening to write, and I have been gathering my ideas for a couple of weeks now and outlining where I want to go with my novel. I'm going to make it to at least day 15 this year! (Please don't ask to see it. I never show my work before it's done!)